Sunday, April 1, 2012

Blue or Pink- What do you Think?

nine. eight. seven. six. five. four. three. two. one... boy or girl?! The date is set- nine days until we find out little twiddle bug's gender! I can't wait! I wanted to have perfect names picked out for both, so that when we found out, we could start calling baby by name, but I'm having trouble with a boy name. There's one or two that I like, but are they fitting and perfect enough for this little one? I don't know. I open to suggestions at this point since it seems I have exhausted my sources. Girl names, on the other hand are no problem for me. I guess it's because I don't have a girl yet, and I haven't used up my favorite names on that account.

Me to Elijah: "so do you want a sister or a little brother?"
him: "baby sister!"
me: "How come?"
him: "Well we already have two boys, and I would like the sister a lot."

Owen wants a boy. He still pretty much calls everyone a "he." I'm guessing he doesn't see a huge difference between genders at this point.

I sort of like the idea of having a third boy... I know I'm asking for trouble, and more messes, monsters, and a whole lot of wild! But raising boys has been a lot of fun this far, I think a third boy would fit in so easily with these rambunctious little superheroes I already claim.

I also have to admit... I kind of like being the only girl in the house. I send the boys out with their daddy to do "boy" things like fishing, wrestling in the yard, or just digging in the dirt. Boys have a special way of loving their mommy... of course I'm sure girls do to. They protect me, and "make me feel better," when I'm sad. I guess I get pampered a little more than I might if our house was full of other girls... who wouldn't love that?

But... on the other hand I've never had a girl to do girly stuff with. I imagine all the things I would love doing since I am completely girly to the core! Painting nails, big frilly hair bows, SHOES, boy talk, purses, secrets, movies, books, crafts, the list goes on and on... Yes, a little girl would be fun! I also know how much Martin would love a daughter! He has a natural tenderness that would make any little girl blossom to see in her daddy.

So Blue or Pink, no matter what I think, God has already chosen this child of ours specifically for us! That alone amazes me. He knows everything about this little person who isn't even born yet, this little twiddle bug that I am dying to meet, He understands completely. Now all that's left to do is wait.

The boys won't be coming with us to the ultrasound, so I am thinking up a fun way to tell them about their little sibling. That gives me a project to distract me from madness... oh yeah and find a few more boys name to consider.

2 comments:

  1. Okay, here are some I didn't get to use (too bad Paul didn't go for my idea of giving Caleb five or six middle names to fit in all the ones I liked!)

    Sam (short for Samuel or Samson, or Samwise if you're a big LotR fan...lol!)
    Levi
    Max
    Liam
    Jackson (Jax or Jacks for short)

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  2. I can totally see both sides. When I had two boys, I felt very comforable with boys. And still to see a mom with three boys makes me smile. There's something to be said about being the only girl in the family. :) But then there's Julianna. And having her makes me wonder what I ever did before having a girl. She's way more of a girly girl than I am. I'm pretty sure she's had her nails painted more in her three years than I have in my 40. :) But having a little more pink around the house is nice. And girl toys are way more fun than boy toys! Being the little sister of two big brothers is so great, too. So I really understand how you're feeling, since I was feeling the exact same way a few years ago. And I know that God will send the perfect baby for your family. (But I'm hoping for pink!)

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